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Today, the world management has become almost a fashion icon. Everywhere you see time management, Career management, Project management, this management, that management ending with Life management! But have you ever heard of friend management? And why not? It is one of the most basic needs to make our lives easier as we go through this long and winding road that’s life. Why doesn’t anyone design and manage their circle of friends? Most of us have never given it a thought. First of all, how do we make friends now? During some activity we undertake, we are thrown together and we get to know each other and we are now friends! Why don’t we go out in search of friends who will really lay down their life for us, so to speak? Friends with whom you can,

·         make a powerful connection based common base,

·         Have a deep sense of respect, appreciation and affection for each other,

·         Have the ability to be yourself, shedding down all make-up,

·         Be comfortable in the knowledge that your back is safe, covered by friends who will protect you,

·         And have fun together to which you will look forward to eagerly.

So give it a try. Follow a couple of steps we give below. See how it works for you.

What do you want in a friend?

What is the most important trait you look for in a friend? Don’t look for too many things. If you do, you may not find any friend to fit in. Filter your friends in realistic way. Remember not to look for friends having no vice or no unpleasant traits because such people don’t exist.

Go and meet them!

If you are looking for a friend with a penchant for reading you have to frequent libraries and book shops. Scouting for such friends at Rugger matches will not find your friend. If you want to have friends who are outgoing and energetic, try going to parties and clubs. You’ll have any number to choose from saw, be careful how you go. Pick the right one! You don’t have to be in a hurry.

Say Yes/No    

 Now that you have taken your pick of friends, begin to cultivate their friendship little by little to find out if they are really the friends you wanted. Take the initiative. Invite them out. Go out with them. Join them for picnics and other social activities. At the same time try to wean yourself from the people you don’t want to be too close with. Now that you have realized they are not friends you want. That will give you time to be with the new friends you have chosen.

As you go alone, your all friends may find fault with you for neglecting them. As you know every good thing has a rise and this is the price you have to pay. Don’t give it much thought. As you gradually build up your circle of true friends, you will ultimately realize it was all worth why!! So, go ahead. Enjoy life to the fullest.